GREEN or HAZEL
The only difference between a dream and a goal is that a goal has a deadline. You achieve your dreams by setting goals.
You set goals by constantly breaking those goals down into smaller and smaller doable and bite sized tasks that help you achieve the big goal.
The beauty of this exercise is that creates a visual road map and plan that guides you to setting goals and achieving your dreams.
First, brainstorm what you want out of life. What are your dreams? Who do you want to be? What do you want to do?
Take the next couple of minutes to brainstorm on a piece of paper what you want your future to look like. Once you have your list, categorize it based on when you want it to happen: 3 months from now, a year, 3 years, or lifetime. You can print this template to help you organize your thoughts.
For each time frame, circle ONE goal that would give most impact to your life. This will leave you with four main goals to work towards. In my example, the four goals are eat healthy (3 months), graduate (1 year), start a business (3 years), and have a family (lifetime). The key is to work on one goal at a time and focus all of your energy into that one to get it done the quickest and then move on to the others.
Which of those four goals would have the most positive impact on your life at this very moment? Make that your “Goal Changer”. List all of the small steps you would need to take to reach that goal. For example if getting healthy was my goal changer then I would think about all of the things that would make me healthier: exercise, eating healthier, drinking water, getting enough sleep, taking vitamins etc. Organize your thoughts with this template.
Break those down even further with details. List how you’ll be exercising. Will you be running? Doing yoga? Who will you be doing it with? How often will you be doing it? When will you start? How much weight do you plan on losing? When do you plan on losing it by?
Of your main tasks, which ones do you need to accomplish first. List them in chronological order and assign dates to them. Add those goals to your planner so you can keep track of accomplishing them and it will be easier to hold yourself accountable.
*Exercise adapted from the amazing Passion Planner that you can totally buy here to help you schedule your goals and put them into a weekly routine.
I was having a pretty bad day the other day, but it seemed like my sadness just melted away with this smoothie. Hopefully if you’re feeling down this smoothie will cheer you up and will add a little sunshine to your day.
Dump everything into the blender and blend away. Adjust the milk and cranberry juice according to thickness. Some blenders need more liquid to help properly blend contents.
Super quick, simple, and delicious!
I’m working on getting into a schedule of uploading videos every Saturday. Check out the latest video about my foundation routine – what exactly I do and what products I use. Hopefully you’ll find it helpful.
Benefit The POREfessional
Mary Kay CC Cream Very Light
Mary Kay Concealer Ivory 1
This healing tea was a life saver – or should I say throat saver – when I had laryngitis and a super sore throat. It’s easy to make and has a lot of ingredients that are going to not only soothe your throat, but also heal your body.
*these ingredients have more benefits than just what I listed, but the benefits I did list are the ones that are going to help heal you body when you have the flu or a cold.
Welcome to Coffee Talk where I casually sit down and talk to you about what’s on my mind while drinking a cup of coffee and then we formulate a civil discussion in the comments below.
So for today’s coffee talk I want to share my thoughts on Photoshop and retouching. Given, the controversy of Photoshop has been around a while in the realm of photojournalism, it’s been the last few years that I’ve seen videos and articles pop up all over the world wide web in regards to the retouching and transforming of a model’s physical characteristics in post production. As a photographer and a beauty consultant, I have some thoughts on the subject, but more importantly I want to provide some counter points for what I’ve come to find in the content I’ve come across. I don’t think this subject is as black and white as it’s been made to appear. In fact, there are probably fifty shades of grey in between. (…ha…)
I want to set the stage a little bit first with some things to keep in mind as we delve into this.
Most photographers view themselves as artists. They are trying to create a specific ambiance, image, representation in order to convey a particular message. Depending on the project, this could be their own free creative reign or a specific message that a brand or company has hired them to create imagery for.
Not only that, but there is just as much of an artistic aspect in setting everything up manually as there is editing in post production. Depending on the photographer’s preferences, some prefer to have more play on the set with the actual camera and others prefer the control of the dark room – digital or otherwise – more. And I think that both are equal and complimentary mediums of each other.
In my mind and based on my understanding, as a model, you aren’t you posing for a picture in Hollister clothing you are modeling as whoever they want you to be wearing Hollister clothing. So a model is essentially like an actor, but instead of a movie, it’s a still scene.
For example, Helena Bonham Carter played the Red Queen in Tim Burton’s 2010 adaptation of Alice in Wonderland. Would she have had the right to be angry that they made her head unusually large in post production when that wasn’t the size of her head normally? What about the fact that they made her face unusually white with makeup? In both circumstances, her physical appearance has been altered. Actors will often times go as far as losing or gaining weight to meet the character requirements for certain roles.
And this leads me to the subject of consent. In every relationship with a model there should be some sort of understanding between the model and the creative team, preferably in the form of a written contract, of what that model’s role is. This is a responsibility of the model to know exactly what he/she is modeling for and if it doesn’t fit their morals, beliefs, standards, etc. then they can walk away. It’s important to keep in mind that modeling is a job that the model is getting paid for and beyond actually modeling they don’t have an opinion in the rest of the process.
When it comes to the consent of a model who has paid a photographer to take their picture, it is once again important to have a written contract between both parties, however the creative process becomes just as much the client’s say as it does the photographer’s. The photographer has to respect the client’s wishes and the client has to trust the photographer’s expertise. I have had multiple clients request that I Photoshop them to make them look better by removing this or that. Obviously not every one will want that so there should be a relationship from start to finish between the client and the photographer so the client is happy with the final product.
Lastly, there is the subject of consent when either consent is not given or when there is no payment involved. An example of this would be celebrities and paparazzi. It’s interesting because of the three, this is the example that should have the least creative license to Photoshop an image yet the one with the most creative license to Photoshop seems to always be what has the most negativity directed towards it.
In the end, everyone wants to look good in photographs because they take something momentary and make it lasting. I think it’s the job of any photographer who is either paid to take a picture of someone or doesn’t have that person’s consent to use their expertise to make that person look their best in the original photograph. It’s hard to draw the line in post production when it comes to making someone look their best because everyone is going to have a different opinion on what that person’s best looks like. Minor touch ups could slide when it comes to blemishes because I think there’s a general consensus out that people could do without remembering their blemishes. After all, they aren’t permanent anyway.
I don’t think photographers or postproduction editors are completely to blame. I don’t really think anyone is to blame. I just think there’s a misunderstanding. I think this controversy is based on poor communication skills as well as a negative reflection of what our society’s standards of “beauty” are. Photographers need to be more honest about their work and models need to be more understanding of the process.
I don’t support today’s standards and expectations of beauty. Nor do I enjoy seeing people’s natural and beautiful figures distorted based on someone’s opinion of what they “should look like”. However, I do think that there’s more to the issue then the media is portraying.
So those are the thoughts that have been bouncing around inside my head recently. What do you think about the Photoshop controversy? And have you ever been retouched in a photo? Let me know your thoughts in the comments below. I look forward to reading them and engaging in a discussion with you.
Today, I want to share with you a tool I use to help me with my daily planning and scheduling. Planners are great and all, but I need more than just a play by play of my day. I need a break down of what I actually need to do and accomplish. I’m also a crazy note jotter so I need a lot of space to to have my notes organized. This is something you can fill out the night before to keep you on task for the following day. Because I think this is such a great tool, I’m including it as a free printable download.
In the top left you can feel free to circle the day of the week and write the date below it for future reference.
Keep track of how many glasses of water you’re drinking each day
Make a note of what you plan on making for breakfast, lunch, and dinner
Hold yourself accountable to your fitness goals by committing to what you will be working on.
Make a list of what you need to do for the day.
Maybe you need to wake up at a certain time, you want to try out a specific makeup look, or today is your exfoliant day – here you would put reminders for daily tasks.
What are the 5 most important tasks for the day? Pull them from your to do list, goals, events, daily tasks, etc. Make your number 1 priority the hardest task on your list.
This isn’t a grocery list, but just a place to quickly add a reminder for you to get something you need that you can collectively add to a grocery list before you go to the store. Maybe you ran out of shampoo this morning and you need to pick some up after work.
Whether it’s work, a doctor’s appointment, or lunch with a friend, you can remind yourself of those important meetings here.
List the tasks that will help you towards your weekly goal or tasks that help you meet your daily goal. Run 5 miles? Write it down. Complete two pages for your term paper due Thursday? Write it down.
For anything else you can think of, doodles, the phone number of someone you met, what have you.
Hope this could be a smart and effective tool for you to use to be more productive in your daily schedule and working towards your goals. You can download The Daily Plan here.
I can’t remember the last time I had the flu. I recall being confined to my bed with the exception of the consistent trips I had to make to the bathroom. This, however, has not been the case. Last week I thought I just caught a cold. No, it’s not as bad as the stomach flu, but it’s much worst than your typical cold … and apparently it’s still a strain of influenza.
Yuck. I can’t stand being forced to rest. It’s good for the body, I know, but I’m pretty sure we can all agree that the faster our bodies heal the better. There’s too much to do and too little time to do it in.
So if the seasonal weather has brought unwanted pathogens to your door and you find yourself suffering from the flu, here’s a “Flu Bomb” that will send them packing.
*Essential Oils should not be taken internally unless of a therapeutic grade.
Make sure you’re getting enough Vitamin C
Use Thieves Lozenges for sore throats
Take 3 Immuplex Standard Process all natural food supplements twice a day.
Spice things up this Valentine’s Day with a therapeutic grade and all essential massage oil for you and your significant other. This Citrusy Floral blend helps with emotional stability and sensuality with fresh, rich, sweet, and tangy scents of citrus and floral.
1. Take your carrier oil and pour it into your bottle about 1/3 of the way.
2. Add 12-14 drops of Bergamot essential oil
3. Add 2-3 drops of Ylang Ylang essential oil
4. Add 2-3 drops Grapefruit essential oil
5. Pour the carrier oil into your bottler until it reaches about 3/4 of the way. You will want to leave some room for the oils to breathe so don’t fill it all the way up to the top.
6. You can cork the bottle and feel free to decorate with a ribbon or tag that reminds you what it is.
*Avoid aggressive shaking and keep oil away from direct heat and light.